Yep, this is my spot.

[Napewastewin]

115 pounds to lose, could be overwhelming if I continue to look at it that way so I will just set little goals, every pound down is a good thing...

[QueenMama]

That's the common sense approach, make little goals, perhaps 5 or 10 lbs at a time. When you reach that goal, reward yourself with a little non-food item. If you look at having too lose 115 lbs, it's daunting, but, hey, 5 lbs, that's easy!

[Mab]

Just getting started is a real accomplishment!
I think setting smaller goals has been v. helpful for me. When I thought of that nice big 100 + number in my head it seemed daunting. But you can do this!

[Goddess]

Originally Posted by Napewastewin

115 pounds to lose, could be overwhelming if I continue to look at it that way so I will just set little goals, every pound down is a good thing...

i like your attitude already! that's a great way to look at it.

[Lawbooks]

You are absolutely right!

Set mini-goals for yourself and designate a specific (non-food) reward for each goal reached (massage, new CD, whatever appeals to you).
Love your attitude! You're gonna do GREAT!

[babybluejay1]

Every pound is certainly a victory! Great attitude.

[Kumus]

Welcome aboard! Small goals are more obtainable and very rewarding.

[Napewastewin]

Thank you all, you have made me feel very welcome here.

[tlcunningham]

I like the reward thing! I've decided, when I lose the 1st 10 lbs., to buy myself a PRETTY bra. I'm so tired of the boring "big girl" bras! Anybody have a brand they like for us "fluffy" chicks? There's got to be something out there for those of us who can't shop at Victoria's Secret! (Yet...)

[QueenMama]

Tracy, check out Just My Size, Roamans, Lane Bryant and Woman Within. They have some really pretty bras, as well as the old plain Jane comfort stand-bys. These are all online as well as catalog order. In fact, Just My Size has been running a $13.99 Playtex sale, and some of them are very pretty.

[tlcunningham]

Thanks, Nita!

[Napewastewin]

Originally Posted by tlcunningham

I like the reward thing! I've decided, when I lose the 1st 10 lbs., to buy myself a PRETTY bra. I'm so tired of the boring "big girl" bras! Anybody have a brand they like for us "fluffy" chicks? There's got to be something out there for those of us who can't shop at Victoria's Secret! (Yet...)

I say we all get together and have a run at victoria secrets when we meet goal, what better incentive then gorgeous undies.

In the meantime, JMS has some nice looking bras and you can order a catalog online.

[eternallyme]

Lane Bryant has very pretty undergarments for us big girls. Also there are Ashley Stewarts (plus size) stores in MI...they also have pretty underwear and lingerie.