I love you guys, but like Peg, I need to get this posted before Desperate Housewives and Gray's Anatomy comes on. Priorities, Priorities......
Daddy got out of the hospital today. DH is staying to care for him. I expect him home Tuesday evening at the very earliest, and more likely on Thursday or Friday. They are 99% sure that the mass they saw on the X-rays was fluid from the pneumonia (probably old blood from the bleed earlier in the week). It did not show up in an X-ray yesterday. He is also coughing quite a bit when he swallows liquids and may have aspirated some liquids. That is most likely a side effect of lowering his Parkinson's meds which we had to do because of the heart condition. Can you follow the vicious circle. Keeping the meds right and the side effects down is like building a house of cards.
DD, SIL, and I spent about 4 hours yesterday interviewing and reviewing assisted living facilities. We all came to the conclusion that he would be better off to pay for an aide from a real home health care agency to come in to help him 3-4 times per week. The move would require him downsizing again by at least 50% and then doubling (at least) his cost of living per month. After we looked at the facilities, really considered his needs, and especially considered the effect that the move could have on his mental state, we all agreed that for now this is the best solution. He was one happy man about that decision. DH will handle the negotiations with the HH agency on Tuesday. For the time being he is back on Medicare's bill. That, we have discovered, usually only lasts a couple of weeks.
Peg, I am so excited for you. DH had to have a practice run packing the car (more than once) before we actually left. Congratulations on getting your computer back up and running again. SP2 is a bi*ch for some and works great for others. I wish DH or I had been there to help you. He would have had you up and running again pretty quickly. As for finding the files you want on the external hard drive, it is a little tricky. The easiest thing to do is to open the drive and just run a "search" for the file while designating the external as the drive to search. After you get the path, you can go back and open everything all the way through until you get to my documents. If you get stuck, send me a message and we will try to walk you through that, too. I'll bet you have the same program that we do for backing up the computer.
Brenda, I envy all of you that have low key Christmas shopping to do. Christmas is a big deal in our family, and true to his very detail oriented and organized nature (yeah, that really reads as anal nature), DH often makes it harder than it needs to be. We work really hard to get just what everyone wants and needs.
Shelley, good luck back at work tomorrow. Exactly how are you going to pinch a surgical mask over the bridge of your nose? I would love to have a meeting in Dallas. My people will definitely try to hook up with your people. The drapes are really pretty --- quite elegant! Maybe I can get the new topper for the kitchen window done sometime this week.
Donna, I'm so sorry about the fall. You really should get your foot checked out. You want it to heal correctly. Hey, send the doctor bill to old Scrooge. I'm glad to hear that Lissa's surgery seemed to come off right. We are all still praying for her recovery.
Brenda, plumbing projects usually send me running. DH is not blessed with patience or a civil tongue when he loses it. Plumbing is usually a guarantee of every bad word in the book.
.........time out for TV.............. back later


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we are already hosting the choir on Weds night (that?s 20+), and we leave on Thursday night for the US?. When am I going to pack? Finish the second nephew?s quilt? Prepared resumes and send emails for the trip to DC? ARGH!!!!
(Ever see Snoopy do that thing where he cries, leaning his head way back? That?s how I?m feeling!)
Your bosss sounds like a real *****. I don't think that I would count on him noticing. I do hope that DH in his attempt to make you feel better about the books, does the mudding in your room. I'd be about mad by now if I were living in that mess. 

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