A Work In Progress: Summer Ameen Kelly

Several years ago on this very site, I posted my story about my years as a yo-yo dieter.  It was entitled "No Longer a Professional Dieter."  In this lengthy testimony, I revealed my years of struggle with my weight and self-esteem. 

Summer @ 21!From puberty to age 23, my nutrition was less than stellar.  Skipping meals, living on soda and chips, and inconsistent exercise summed up my dieting style, but (obviously) I couldn't keep this up forever.  Eventually, I knew it would catch up with me and eventually, it did.

With my first pregnancy (at age 23), I gained a sum total of 65 pounds.

Summer with her Darling Daughter!Unfortunately, my precious baby girl only made up for about 7 pounds of that.  Immediately, I embarked on a popular & highly advertised weight loss program (rhymes with Penny Leg) and lost all but 15 pounds.  With the return to regular food, however (instead of their pre-packaged stuff), I regained almost all that I had lost.

Thus began my quest to find the "perfect diet."  You name it and I've probably done it:  Vegetarianism, Macrobiotic, Low-Fat, Low-Cal, WW, Blood Type, SlimFast, etc.  I tried exercising and even enlisted the help of a professional weight trainer.  She got me toned and strong (not to mention sleep deprived since we met for 6 am workouts!), but I never could get my eating in synch with my fitness goals.  Either I was eating well and lying around like a slug, or I was exercising daily and eating everything in sight!  Where was the BALANCE???

Finally, a friend turned my attention to the low-carb lifestyle.

I read Protein Power by Drs. Michael and Mary Dan Eades and was amazed by the logic of this way of eating.

Fast forward to 3 years ago... I had been following a low-carb lifestyle and had lost more than 50 pounds and kept it off for several years.  I had encountered a pretty stubborn set-point battle (stall), but was starting to finally break through and had begun losing again when IT happened:

In July of 2005, I was hit & run over by a drunk driver in front of my own house. While the situation could have been SO much worse (by the grace of God, I was not seriously injured), the pain of my injuries and the loss of my sense of security (the driver was never caught) resulted in a spiraling depression. 

When Hurricane Katrina struck a little over a month later, my entire state was sent into turmoil and my depression grew worse.  For more than a year I struggled with trying to get my life "upright" again, but the reality was that I had completely put my health and fitness goals on the back burner.  The result was a weight gain of more than 30 pounds.

Today, I am in a much better place and fully engaged in my low-carb journey once more.  This time, however, it's about more than a number on the scale or a dress size.  For me, the past 2 years have been a time of tremendous growth - mentally and spiritually.  Root problems that have contributed to my weight struggle for years have resurfaced and I have begun to deal with each of them in earnest.  I truly believe that the answer to life-long success in weight and health is achieved by finding a way of eating that works as a lifestyle and by honestly dealing with all of the emotional baggage that comes with years of obesity and dieting.  You cannot have one without the other and achieve true success.

I fully believe that the low-carb lifestyle is the healthiest option for losing weight and for me, it's definitely a lifestyle I can live with for years to come. 

So while I still have not crossed the "finish line" as yet, I consider myself to be a work in progress in this journey toward weight loss and better health - a journey I intend to stick with to the end.

Summer, then and now (back on track)!


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Summer's story

You are truly an inspiration Summer. Thank you for sharing your story. I also feel this is a lifestyle I can live with and feel good about my return to lce. I wish you the best on your journey.

Rob's picture

Thanks for the update

Thanks for the update Summer! Glad to have you back at LCE!

pegster's picture

Summer:  It is so good to

Summer:  It is so good to hear from you again!  I well remember when I joined this Forum your postings.  I remember when you had your baby.  But, I didn't know about your accident.  I just knew that you disappeared!  I am so glad that you are back.

 

I, too, have struggled with depression in my life.  Much of it has been brought on, in my case also, by various traumas.  And, like you, I, too, have learned so much about myself through the process of healing, that I give thanks all the time for those insights.  

 

Best of luck to you in your future.  So glad you are back.

Peace, Peg 

bkloots's picture

Inspiration!

This is an inspiring account...and beautifully written, too. Heartfelt attention to every aspect of health doesn't come easily.

Goddess's picture

Thank you, Summer!

Thank you for sharing your update, Summer, and for the reminder that this IS a lifetime process, and it's much, much more than a number on the scale or what size of clothing you're wearing.

Thanks for helping inspire all of us who are very much "works in progress."